The Rewards of being a private companion When I started working as a private companion/female, I had so many misconceptions about the “world of hookuping”. Most of what I thought or should I say thought I knew to be true is what society has coined to be true of the world and I like so many people everywhere believed to be true. Believed it to be the gospel so to speak. The images that society paints and the moral standards that are implied is that it’s wrong, indecent, humiliating to women, degrading…. only the lowest of women would sell themselves etc….etc…..etc….. Not to mention the “classification” or should I say DE-classification of women socially, morally, physically, emotionally and spiritually by society of the ladies that hookup. I find it rather amusing, especially now, how society takes it upon itself to judge the women, the men,the agency owners and the clients of this profession.I could write on that as a separate entity but for today I would just like to share with anyone who is reading my journey into the world of hookuping and the many wonderful people I have met a long the way so far. Also, how it has helped me grow as a person…. maybe it will give you insight into a world that is not what it is painted to be, well not at least the part of the planet that I am in…. perhaps it may change your perspectives, beliefs on the hookuping world. First let me tell you about me. I have a Master’s degree in a healthcare profession and hold a job in the community in which I live. To look at me I am just as normal as you, your sister, your aunt, your best friend, your child’s teacher, your doctor, the receptionist you see everyday or any other female you know and consider the norm. Do I look like an hookup? Well now, that is a good question because that too, is another topic for a separate entry.Because it flows with the stereotypical image of this world that has been painted by society. Most of the time, hookups are portrayed as streetwalkers. The typical picture is that of the mini-skirt clad, high heeled babe leaning over the window of a car on the street. And in turn follows the typical judgment of drug abuse and alcohol, perhaps homelessness and the “pimp” that abuses them. Now, I know this part of the world does exist and it saddens me…… I was devastated by the news footage and my hearts went out to those women. Another entry as I said. Real quick though: Do I look like that? NO….do I judge those women? Absolutely not. And NOONE should….my favorite quote and how I live my life is according to the quote– “Let he who is without sin cast the first stone….” I would be the LAST person anyone would think was a professional companion/hookup. And I will let you in on a secret…I love it! It is the most self-rewarding and fulfilling job I have had…well next to being a Mom, of course! I like to think of hookuping as a craft, a hobby, an art that is perfected each and every time I meet with someone! And this brings me to the fun part…. the rewards of my “hobby” let’s call it and why it is so rewarding… My growth and me. The line of work i chose has become a guiding light for me and for the men and women i meet in my line of work. I have grown more personally and spiritually in the time working as a companion than I have in my lifetime. I have met men and women that have contributed to my growth in ways I could have only imagined. How? You ask. Well you see there is a misconception out there that people use this service for one thing and that is SO NOT TRUE! Let’s put one to bed right now (sorry bad use of words…. wink) but the “attached client”. I have spent intimate time just listening to many gentlemen talk about their lives and provided them with an outlet to just talk…I know, I know men, talk, in the same sentence?….LOL but yes talk! And do they ever…..and I Love IT! Why? Because they need it and it makes me feel good that I can be there for them. They talk about things that their significant other has probably heard a thousand times but to them it is reminiscent of their younger days and yes…less complicated times. And I respond naturally just like their women did the first times they heard it! But for them it’s all about the thrill! The thrill of having some attention! Let’s face it Ladies we are all guilty of being wrapped to tight with life’s string of stressors and for us it isn’t easy to put the sink full of dishes, the pile of bills, the dentist appointment Sally has next week, what we are baking for the PTO event etc, etc, etc….out of our minds for an hour yet alone spend some time with our men without staring at the ceiling wandering …..”Shoot Did I remember to call the phone company and make that late payment?” and …. How many times has it even slipped out of our mouths? Or you have been caught staring into space and accused of not even being there….. Heck, I have heard men say the whole house has to be clean not just the dishes and the moon and stars have to be aligned just right. Ah well, I am guilty of that one in the past…not anymore as I said I am growing past a lot of my personal bs. But now men they can nine out of ten times put just about anything out of their minds to get down to business with their woman! And enjoy themselves and hours later wander what they were stressed out about…..lol. A lot of times men need another person to vent to that isn’t their significant other, this doesn’t say that I (we) replace or can even remotely try nor want to try to replace a significant other, it just means that in the busy lives we all are guilty of today, men would rather spend their time with a significant other serving other purposes than rehashing their work week or other stresses. Most of the men I have met (with the exception of one and well he was just to hung up on his “personal” materials to tear him away from his ego…smile) have been just the sweetest most adoring men you’d ever want to meet. Just normal guys needing an escape, a warm body or a woman to make them feel like they hung the moon even if for an hour or two! Personal attention that is what it is all about. And I have to say I have more respect for these guys than I do for the guys that lie and cheat on their significant others by having intimate long drawn out emotional affairs. Think about it? This is not personal for either the associate or the client, it is a service and that is it! Just like when you go get your car tuned up or you get a haircut, your nails manicured or your suit dry-cleaned. The clients of mine are men of middle to upper class. They are respectable, professional and well-mannered just generally very nice people. I have met accountants, bankers, salespeople, clergymen, lawyers, doctors, construction workers, retail workers, teachers and I can tell you they are just normal everyday people. You would never know they are “hookup see-ers”. My rewards have been so many and so I set up this blog to discuss the rewards, the agency, the owner and the clientele and let you see into the beautiful world of what I do!

What is a female hookup-companion A call girl is a female women offering her company and time at a hourly fee,a hookup is either a female or male companion offering their services at a hourly fee,who (unlike a street walker) is not visible to the general public. Nor does she usually belong to an institution like a brothel.One must make reservations to see her,usually by calling a telephone number — hence the term “call girl”.Often,hookups advertise their services in small ads in magazines and through the internet,although an intermediary advertiser such as an hookup agency when promoting higher class hookups. There are two different types of hookups: Independents hookups and hookups that work for an hookup Agency. hookup can work either incall, where the client comes to them, or outcall, where they come to the client. hookups are commonly perceived to be able to pick and choose amongst their potential clients and therefore demand higher prices for their services,and are more attractive,educated, well-groomed and youthful than street level.An hookup service will not take on any woman who is unattractive, has a visible drug problem (such as needle marks from injecting drugs),or who presents an overly negative personality. Also, many hookup agencies do criminal background checks on applicants to weed out those that have been arrested for street prostitution or other types of crimes. The hierarchy of this industry in general is as follows:(applies to the USA) High End hookup (Agency & Independent) – Least amount of risk highest return General web hookup (Agency & Independent) Yellow Pages based hookup Agency Bar or Club Truck Stop or Lot Street Crack Ho – Maximum amount of risk

Misconceptions about men who see hookups Just like there are stereotypes about why women become hookups,there are stereotypes about men who pay for the services of hookups.Just like the stereotypes about hookups,the majority of the stereotypes about clients are not true either. They are all filthy rich,Generally when you see men in the media who’ve been caught with hookups,they are well off. While many of the clients I see are in “white collar jobs”1,there’s also a good number of “blue collar workers”2 that see me as well.The ONLY difference is that one group saves up to see me,and the other group is fortunate enough to have more disposable income. Can a man with more disposable income occasionally indulge more? Yes.But this is actually pretty rare.All of my clients,regardless of financial status,see me around the same amount. They are “creepy old men” My client base ranges from 35 to 60.Most clients are between 35-55,with the average client being around 40-47.Hardly “creepy old men”,at least in my opinion.I have seen several older clients (65+),and really enjoy my time with them.I’ve not had a single client that fits the “creepy old man” stereotype. I’m sure there are “creepy old men” who see hookups,and I may even encounter one, but are they the norm? Hardly. There must be something wrong for them to pay for intamacy Is there something wrong with you because you pay someone to colour your hair? Is there something wrong with you because you get Roto-Rooter to fix your toilet instead of DIY? I don’t think so. I am of the mindset that if you want something done right,you’re better off hiring a professional than taking a gamble with an amateur. When it comes down to it,hiring an hookup is cheaper than going barhopping. Not only is it cheaper,it’s as close to a guarantee as you’re going to get. Not to mention the girl is likely to be more sober than one you pick up in a bar. When selecting an hookup,you can choose someone who fits your aesthetic preferences. You can read reviews and get a preview of whether or not you’ll be getting the most bang for your buck3.There’s also the advantage of the drama-free encounter,not having to call someone the next morning,and a true no strings attached encounter. In short,hiring a professional is not done because there’s something wrong with the client.The average client merely wants a professional experience with no drama. They are sleazy womanisers, and/or misogynists Quite the opposite actually.The average client enjoys the female body almost to the point of worship.I have found my clients to be the biggest sweethearts in the world. Generally those who hate women do not pay them hundreds of dollars for their company. They are sexually inept No more than the average man.I’ve had clients that were amazing lovers,clients that were poor lovers,and clients that wanted to have lessons in becoming better lovers.What I have found is that my clients are more into the idea of pleasing me first and them second. Moreso than the average man. If anything, I’d say that fact alone makes them a better lover whether or not their sexual skills are top notch. They are socially inept Also not true.I’ve had shy, awkward clients but again – no more than in everyday life.The majority of my clients are very talkative and outgoing. It’s not that they can’t get a woman, or are too awkward around them.Most just don’t want the drama of unpaid companionship.

Public Perception Of Call Girls One thing that call girls have in their favor, as contrasted with street prostitutes, is that they're out of public sight. In some countries, the public dislikes seeing street prostitutes in or near their communities and usually actively campaigns for local law enforcement to arrest these women. Since call girls try not to draw attention to themselves and conduct their business beyond public view, the public seldom call for law enforcement action. Those trying to legalize prostitution commonly use this sentiment to their advantage by telling the public that the best solution for street prostitution is to legalize prostitution arranged over the telephone and/or internet. This "out of sight, out of mind" argument carries the most weight with the public that opposes street prostitution due to it driving down the value of their real estate.

NOT ALL hookupS ARE THE SAME Not all clients hire girls for physical reasons.Some simply do so for companionship either for social reasons (i.e. attending a party) or for companionship (i.e. someone who feels lonely may hire a girl to provide companionship missing in his or her life).Other girls may specialize in domination or other fetishes which do not require intimate sexual activity.

A NOTE ABOUT hookupING A call girl or hookup is a sex worker who (unlike a street walker) is not visible to the general public.Nor does she usually belong to an institution like a brothel.One must summon her,usually by calling a telephone number—hence the name call girl.Often,call girls advertise their services in small ads in magazines,and more recently through the internet,although an intermediary advertiser such as an hookup agency may be involved in promoting higher class hookups. The lower class side of hookups may be handled by a pimp or a pander. Call girls can work either incall, where the client comes to them,or outcall, where they come to the client. Call girls are commonly perceived to be elite amongst prostitutes,far more skilled,able to pick and choose amongst their potential clients and therefore demand higher prices for their services,and are more attractive,educated,well-groomed and youthful than street prostitutes.An hookup service will not take on any woman that is unattractive,has a visible drug problem (such as needle marks from injecting drugs), or who presents an overly negative personality.hookup services seek to establish a reputation for offering desirable women and know that their customers only give them one chance.If an hookup service sends an undesirable woman to a client,the client will very likely not use that service again.Also, many hookup agencies do criminal background checks on applicants to weed out those that have been arrested for street prostitution or other types of crimes.This weeding out is done to reduce the chances of being accused of procuring prostitution,trying not to draw the attention of law enforcement agencies.For these reasons, there is rarely any cross-over between call girls and street prostitutes.